Monday, December 10, 2012

"Before" and "After" Photos


Monday December 10, 2012
In the last couple of months my own OCDness has come to light. It’s no secret I like things clean and neat, which is not bad in and of its self, but with two Wild Boys my attempts at cleanliness can be futile.

I have become more efficient with my time and have started to let go of the lie that a clean and organized house means my life is complete. The day it started to change the boys were taking all my kitchen towels out from the drawer again and making a “train” across the living room. Up until that point it hadn’t dawned on me that the towels shouldn’t be foldedo every time they played with them I would refold them once they lost interest. I know. Crazy. (Yes, it's true. I could have nagged them to leave the towels alone, but in the spirit of choosing my battles wisely...) On this particular day I just thought, “No more.” Which in turn led me to realize it was also crazy to fold socks and underwear. Needless to say this has revolutionized the speed at which I can fold clothes. Now that is a talent to value!

In my defense the obsessive need to fold everything (aside from my personality) largely started when David and I lived in a 400 sqft. apartment and every inch of space counted. Now that we live in a place twice as big (I know. Livin’ large!) it’s time to let go. In the same week that I started getting serious about being more efficient with my time I also chose to finally start this blog. It must have been all the extra time I found myself with. Ha. I have since questioned the wisdom of this, but I do love to write. Another benefit of letting go of the small things; I don't get annoyed every time my husband destroys his whole drawer getting a pair of socks.

I would love to inspire other people in condensed living situations by how we utilize our space. I have never NOT been obsessively organized so unfortunately I won’t have any of those incredibly satisfying “before” and “after” photos. Well, that’s not entirely true. I do have some photos that inspire me in my wonderful attempt to slow down, let go of the small things (and sometimes the big), and to let the gift of  the every day with my boys sink down deeply into my soul. I hope the photos do your heart good.

Before

After 

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After
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Have I mentioned how awesome my boys are?

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Not my day.


Yes. I do realize my posts are getting further and further part. Damn human nature. I actually wanted to write about the most precious and hilarious conversation I had with Hud last night, but as I can’t remember what it was I decided to post this video instead (taken this morning). It’s of Harper stomping on the barn of their toy nativity set to get it to play so he could shake his tail feathers.


Oh crap. Never mind. I can't get the video to play. It's not my day. Here is a photo of Grandma Jennifer  instead doing crafts with the boys. Hudson did crafts for 4 hours. I was shocked. The glitter glue certainly encouraged that. The felt trees were, "fuffy" (translation: fluffy). The snow men were, "show". There was even scissors that were Hudson's size. Harper did pretty well with it all. He did chew on the glue stick cap and figured out how to get the lid off the glitter glue, but he watched for a lot of it too. Equally surprising.


Saturday, November 24, 2012

Thanksgiving.



Saturday November 24, 2012
            Happy two days after Thanksgiving and one day after Black Friday (or Brave Friday, whichever you choose)! If you were to ask me how long it had been since my last blog entry I would have guessed four or five days, but, alas, it’s been nine! Time flies . . .
Thanksgiving week started with my dear friend, Myca Blue, getting married. I was deeply touched to be there for her special day. Ridiculously classy wedding, beautiful bride, tears, food, dancing; can't get much better. Hudson definitely snagged the communion bread on the way out too. 
We had an excellent Thanksgiving! I helped my mom with the Turkey, starting the evening before Thanksgiving. It was actually quite fun, made more fun by the boys running around and a great bottle of white wine. This is only the second time I have voluntarily been involved in the cooking process of Thanksgiving and I will say, cooking a Turkey is disgusting. The huge blob of raw, fleshy poultry, pulling out the bagged organs placed in the orifices like accessories, re-stuffing said orifices with something edible. . . Good thing I know it ends well.
The morning of Thanksgiving started with our First Annual Flag Football Game. Hudson and Harper thought the playground was much better than the game. Luckily my mom showed up to watch the boys and two of the Uncles showed up to play the game with David and me. Wonderful time (even with the unnaturally sore muscles)!
Thanksgiving (hosted at The Parent’s house) was exactly as it should be! Excellent food and drink, full bellies, full house, lots of family, loud talking, and us all saying what we’re thankful for (which, of course, involves crying). Parents, Brothers, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, David’s mom Jennifer . . . The night ended with pie, clean up (so many dishes), and more loud talking. We were so tired we ended up spending the night. 
The next day was a pretty big deal as well; Harper received his first haircut! Even though emotionally I was not ready for this event, I felt guilty that his hair kept ratting, getting pulled, and tickling his neck and ear. It was time. With the help of a Youtube video playing on a laptop and some cranberry jello, we got it done (meaning my mom got it done. Just one of her many talents, along with Turkey cooking). He didn’t love the cut hair falling on his arms and back and he needed a nap break. My mom did the cut in two sessions. He boasted a serious mullet for a while there! I was tempted to leave it. Ha.
Hudson and David got haircuts too (thanks mom!). My three handsome men! Great Thanksgiving, great over-night stay, and so great to come home (even if said home was/is a disaster, made more of a disaster by boys getting sick, throw up in our bed, etc). Ah.

Earlier in the week: Harper deciding "Slim Wranglers" are not his jean.


Series of photos I like.

Thanksgiving prep.
The After Thanksgiving Feast Lull.

Pre-haircut.
First snip.


The mullet and wiping his arms of hair.
Beautiful face.
The end result.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

The Rest of the Day in Photos.

The day continued with some coloring time which turned into tattoo time (thanks Uncle Daniel (Nani)).

"See mom!"

Yesterday's post inspired an evening Aquarium visit.

The sharks and rays!

The octopus was out.

Harper pointing at the sharks and keeping his distance.
He was so excited though, "Arr (gasp), Arr (gasp)."

Touch pool. Soaked shirts of course.

Harper wouldn't stop drinking the salt water.

Some late night play-dough time then bed.

Ah. A day well spent. I love my boys.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Shark love.


Wednesday November 14, 2012
            My boys love sharks. Uncle Jesse (my younger brother) bought Hudson a much-advanced 'Ocean and Sea' book (Scholastic) for his birthday. We have looked at it everyday since, numerous times a day. We used to look at it page by page, not stopping long enough to read the descriptions, of course. Now Hudson wants to see only the page with the “juicy” fish on it, which is a terrifying, deep sea fish that glistens, (ironically, this is the only page he’ll let me read the descriptions, which further solidifies my fear of the ocean), and the “ew” page which shows animals covered in oil (must be a boy thing). Oh. And, of course, the shark page. The book came with a 91 page digital companion book that we finally got around to downloading. It’s called “Shark Spotter”. That’s when the shark love began and when Harper jumped on board with this whole ocean thing.
            Every time I am on my computer Harper comes over saying, “arrr!” which is his (and Hudson’s) word for shark (also their word for lion. I guess they know fierce animals when they see them). I pull Harper up on my lap to look at the digital shark book. Hudson soon follows. It’s already happened three times since sitting here.
            The other day Harper was sitting alone on our bed while the rest of us were in the living room. For 10-15 minutes he was beside himself with excitement for finding the shark page, “ARRR! ARRR!” and then a giggle/scream.
            Boise has an awesome aquarium! It has small sharks and even shark eggs you can touch. We are all super impressed by the aquarium and especially the sharks, although I still can’t bring myself to touch them (No. I wasn't bribed to give the aquarium a good review, although I think I should be. I better get on that.)
            The other day I cooked up some “shark” in my crock-pot. The boys gobbled it down, not thinking it at all odd that we were eating shark, which incidentally tasted a lot like pork. Mmm. Delicious.
            I better sign off now, as Hudson is bored of eating peanut butter right from the container whilst sitting on the counter, and Harper is done/cold from locking and unlocking our open sliding glass door. Never mind, make that four times Harper has come over to see the sharks. And here comes Huddo. Maybe naptime would have been a better time to write . . . .

Shark petting at the Idaho Aquarium (last winter).


 "Nemo" - Hudson's former favorite attraction and the current name for the aquarium.


Hudson opening Uncle Jesse's (aka "Sess" or "Hesse") gift at this 3rd birthday.


 Harper and the touch tanks (which he tries to dive into).


Best buds now (thanks to the book and also some serious time spent playing with Jesse's climbing gear)


The page with the "juicy" fish.

- By the time I actually posted this, complete with photos, the boys had already taken a bath with their sharks and cars (Don’t worry. I can see them from my perch. And Yes. I did put them into the bath not to wash them but to contain them), and escaped from said bath (that’s a new trick), to run naked around the house. I know I’ll be finding pee somewhere from Harper.